Sunday, September 4, 2016

BURN-OUT: ATHLETE'S SYNDROME



CYCLING YOUR TRAINING
There are peaks and valleys that run throughout every area of our lives…….

Anyone who is familiar with CrossFit, is also familiar with it’s ‘Balls to the Walls’ mentality, hahaha!!! You know, just do it, who cares if your arm feels like it’s going to fall off, your leg has just given out, or your heart feels as though it will burst through your chest at any given moment…… JUST DO IT!!!!

In this particular class, there was a Navy leader who really liked to single me out, scream at me, and try his best to intimidate me. Nothing like that happening with the entire class looking on, right? I had plenty to do and repeat over and over again, in front of the class. I’m quite sure they were all thinking they were glad it wasn’t them. After two days of his incessant ‘knawing’ the festivities came to a close. I was taking pictures with teammates, and thought it would be good to get a picture of this man as a reminder of the weekend, what I had learned from him, and vice versa. As I approached him, it was as though I knew him my whole life; I had no ill feelings toward him. His scowl disappeared, he spoke at a normal tone, and a large smile emerged as he greeted me with a what I termed, ‘an endurement hug’, a hug signifying that I had endured all his bullshit, and still had a smile on my face. You know the type of BS where your form is dead on and the leader says something to the effect of “Because Jill still doesn’t have it right, everyone has 50 more reps”, or “Because Jill needs more practice we’ll all gather in a circle around her and watch her do 25 more”, of whatever. Real funny.
Yes, my legs were sore for three days, so much so, that I was taking stairs one a time, and so forth. 
Long story short: There are times to go ‘to the wall’, the key is knowing when, how to manage the times you do, and know why you’re doing it. For some athlete’s the line becomes blurred, and ‘Athletes Syndrome’ sets in.

‘ATHLETE SYNDROME’
One would very well expect the same mentality in the military, and so forth, however, I find it a growing ‘trend’, of common folk athlete’s, competitors, and fitness models, to develop the ‘Athlete Syndrome’. 

Athlete Syndrome is what I’ve come to term the condition of one’s state of mind as such that they no longer realize what is working for them and what is not, in regards to their training, gains, losses, appetite, and so forth, and just keep pushing themselves ‘Balls to the Walls’.

With this condition, in regards to training, be it cardio or weight training, the athlete is continually going ‘All Out’ every session, everyday. They wonder what’s wrong with them when they hit a wall three or four months later, when they just can’t seem to get up on their own in the morning, drag themselves into the gym, yawn, and putt around half-heartedly lifting (or doing cardio), with a blank expression on their face. They wonder why they don’t have interest in their cardio, or training and lack motivation. This is where many people who start a program fall off the wagon within months and do not attempt again, until the next ‘New Year’, only to repeat the same mistake.

The same happens from the dieting end, as well. Following strict plans for a ‘purpose’, makes sense. One is competing, going to do a photo shoot, a family reunion, vacation  in Maui, getting married, and so forth, however, staying on the same plan after the event  for months at a time, leads to what I term: 

Food Burn-out. An individual gets tired of food all together. Then, inevitably begins eating junk, pharmafood, empty nutrient foods, etc., looking for something to spark their taste buds again. 

This is the ‘Athlete Syndrome’. The athlete has lost touch with their objectives, goals, and end results, and are instead training and eating on auto-pilot. 

I know several competitors, and many people who do not want to compete, but want to look like they compete, 365 days a year……  as always, I tell them, “Good Luck!”

Good luck, because when a competitor is on stage, they are at their PEAK my friends. Competing IS depleting. Do you want to keep your body in a depleted state 365 days a year? I think not, and this is why it won’t last. Also, keep in mind, as I said, this is the athlete’s PEAK moment, on stage. 

Think of it this way, you are climbing a very high mountain, you have packed, prepared, and worked daily to traverse your way up the various landscapes of the mountain, endured the weather, unfamiliar sleeping grounds, and finally……. reached the PEAK!!!!!!! 

You stand there and take in the view in all it’s glory, you reflect on your trip up, you hold gratitude in your heart for having made it, and for having this time at the PEAK. You wish that your loved ones could see what you are seeing, feel what you are feeling, and you determine to hold this feeling sacred in your heart, forever.  

What does the hiker do next? Does he decide he will stay there? Live at the PEAK? Of course not!!!! Have you ever reached the peak of a huge mountain and found someone living there???? 

A PEAK is a PEAK, is a PEAK, my friends. It is called a PEAK because it is the farthest one can go on the path, the only place from there is to descend, or grow wings and fly. 


TIGHTS TRAINING AND MEAL PLAN ‘CYCLING’
TIGHT athlete’s who are following intense programs, following their plans consistently know how to cycle:

Weight Training: Hit it hard for seven weeks and take the eighth week off completely, with the exception of steady state cardio.

Cardiovascular or Metabolic Training: Ditto, except if you are hitting both training and cardio at the same time with high intensity, you will then do HIIT for the seven weeks and leave it out completely on the eighth, but time it as such that your week off from training is 3-4 weeks apart from your week off cardio. 

This is a generality. Those doing this know their training is unique to them and I specify their plans and ‘Deload’ weeks accordingly. So, again know this is an outline only to give you an idea of what you can do to improve your training, conditioning, mental attitude, and feel refreshed and on top of your game. 

I use the term ‘Deload’ to simply imply you are NOT loading the muscles with intensity, and you are NOT loading the cardiovascular system with intensity.

(Military, Elite and Warrior Athletes: Again, you are working with me on an individual basis to determine the best outline for you at this time, do not go by the above, but rather that which we have discussed on a one on one basis.)

Just as an elite athlete takes time to recover after a month of events, a spec op takes time to recover after a demanding assignment, you, as an athlete must learn to take time off to allow your body to fully recover from intense training. This is no joke. 

When an athlete feels unmotivated, chances are great they have not allowed themselves to fully recover; be it mentally, physically, nutritionally, and/or a mixture of all or some of the three.

I can promise you: 
YOU WILL NOT SHRIVEL UP AND BE A WEAK TWIG IF YOU TAKE TIME OFF.
Given you take the appropriate amount of time off, with the proper state of mind, and engage in appropriate activities. Just as I spoke last week of women who have had surgery yet still ‘see’ the same ‘flaws’ afterwards…..   an athlete can take time off training and be so damn worried about what’s going to happen in that process, they lose the benefits of it. 

DITTO MEAL PLANS 
Yes, your mind needs to ‘Deload’ from meal plans just as your body needs a deload from  intense training. Take a week off, and do NOT prep a thing. Listen to your body, feel like a piece of fruit? Have it! A hamburger, enjoy it! Now, I’m not saying let’s make this a ‘Free-for-All’, I’m saying, eat what you feel your body is asking for, and really listen. Eat some foods you enjoy but are not typically on your plan, pizza? Ok, have a slice, eat plenty of veggies with it. Do you need to be careful with this?               

YES!!!!!!                                                                                           

Some people can handle it just fine, have enough self-control to restrict themselves from going overboard, and others do not. To those who do not have the self-control, I create a meal plan based on what they want, that’s right, they give me a list of things they want to eat, I make a plan that keeps them within the zone, and they enjoy!!!!! 

I recommend a deload on meal plans twice a year: June and December seems to work well for most people. 

If you are one of those people who eat the same foods day after day, week after week, year after year with little to no variation for whatever reason, realize this will only take you so far. Remember my newsletter on Biochemical Functions? You need nutritional balance or else! 

BOTTOM LINE:
Take time off as you need it. Life happens. Illness happens. Injuries happen. Events happen. Intense training takes it toll. 

Just as everything else in our lives have their peaks and valleys, so does our fitness, mentality, line of work, creativity, and so forth. Know when to jump in, and when to back off. Work with a qualified coach if you’re not sure what to do.

I’m happy to be of help if you need assistance. 

As you learn to allow your body/mind to recharge you will find a new momentum each time you head back into the game.

Have a wonderful week!

Jill 
N.H.D., M.H., T.B.M.











PERCEPTION: IS YOURS SKEWED?



“I've learned that fear limits you and your vision. It serves as blinders to what may be just a few steps down the road for you. The journey is valuable, but believing in your talents, your abilities, and your self-worth can empower you to walk down an even brighter path. Transforming fear into freedom - how great is that?”       - Soledad O'Brien

Earth, what a truly beautiful, magnificent planet she is. Such diversification in every realm; plant, animal, fish, fowl, insect, and human. The many landscapes and fascinating, beautiful places to visit and roam, are endless. 

Every day is ‘Earth Day’.

The topic of today’s discussion is about perspective in regards to:

2 a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view: most guidebook history is written from the editor's perspective.

Over the last three decades that I’ve been working with people; men, women, and youth, in the areas of health and fitness, I find there is something amiss in the minds of many.

Although this world is a beautiful place, and it would take an infinity for one to learn and experience all there is, some people have sadly lost their inner drive to  experience life, nature, the ocean, mountain hikes, and so forth. Their perspective has slowly and ever so subtly lulled them into a funnel type of vision, if you will imagine, seeing but a few select things.

Let me ask you a question…

Do you believe a person can live a balanced life with such limited vision? 

Which brings us to the dilemma of many,
not only women, but men, also…..


BODY IMAGE

Do you have any idea how many people are obsessed with what they will eat, how much they will eat, when they will eat, feel remorse for what they have just eaten, shame themselves, count calories, exercise, not exercise, and on, and on it goes….

For these people, their life evolves 24/7 around their physique and all things about it:

  • Is it tall enough?
  • Too short?
  • Fat?
  • Skinny?
  • Muscular?
  • Muffin top?
  • Cellulite?
  • Rashes
  • Birth marks
  • Freckles
  • Scars
  • Moles
  • Skin tags
  • Acne
  • Too much body hair?
  • Not enough body hair?
  • Big enough chest?
  • Big enough breasts?
  • Big enough booty?
  • Saggy booty?
  • Hair too long?
  • Too short?
  • Wrong color?
  • Bad hair day?
  • Stinky feet?
  • Flabby ab’s
  • Chicken legs?
  • Enough V-taper
  • Nose hair
  • Eyelashes
  • Brows too bushy…


It is sheer madness! Chaos, and a complete drain on the energy system, emotions, and mental energy. Sure, you can laugh if you’ve never been there, but to the men and women I’ve been blessed to work with and help overcome such limited perspectives, I can assure you….. it’s a nightmare.


HOW DID THIS MADNESS BEGIN?

We can thank the good ole media for sending out images to the masses, ‘dictating’ in their own unique, subtle way how people should not only physically look, but also how they should dress, determine hairstyles, language, music styles, to the way we ‘should’ be living our lives, and much more.

You see, we have Laws that were given to us, and they come from Creator. These Laws, as God, never change, they are for our own benefit, and we achieve true, everlasting happiness therefrom. I’m a firm believer that if all people truly governed themselves as Creator outlines, then there really is no such need for others to govern us. In the ‘Ideal’ world, right?

Then, we have ‘Laws of the Land’ to govern us. These laws are supposed to benefit us when working properly, however, there is much money to be made by the people making such laws, by those breaking them.

As crazy as it sounds, the very people who own the media outlets; television stations, movies, newspapers, magazines, internet, and so forth are indeed the SAME people who inevitably MAKE the so called ‘Laws’. Yes, they do, just look at who ‘owns’ those politicians with their funding, to accomplish their objectives.
Now, obviously, you can see there is a conflict here, can’t you? The laws of the land tell us we should be doing A-Z, yet the media portrays, and even glorifies the OPPOSITE. Hmmm. Does this make sense to you? Me either. You’ve got the same clowns supporting both sides: ‘Keep the laws’ on one side, and ‘Portray and glorify breaking them nearly everywhere else’, on the other all bought and paid for by the same peeps.

I would have to say from all outward appearances the people running the show on both ends are, well, either really stupid, or very evil by trying to play such foolish games on the masses. Now, I’m not a conspiracy person, I just simply call it as I see it. 

The sad part is, many people have allowed themselves to be tricked by such clever maneuvers. All over you see youth patterning, dressing, and acting the part of their favorite celeb, trying to ‘fit in’, and so forth. To those who do, I say, be different, you were never meant to fit in. You are each unique, embrace that uniqueness, and stop copying other people. Just.Be.Yourself.

Unfortunately, many women, and men, have also fallen subject that they must look a certain ‘way’. For whom? What for? Is this ego driven or out of respect for wanting to improve your health and well-being? Just say’n.

I know women who beat themselves up mentally everyday because they don’t look like their neighbor. They punish themselves by stink’n think’n, and their body replies, “Your wish is my command”. Then they succor, pacify, distract, or comfort themselves with food, drink, alcohol, drugs, you name it. 

It’s not much different for men either, really.


WHAT CAN BE DONE TO STOP THE MADNESS?

I think a good place to start is by realizing:

  • How much time one has wasted on such endeavors
  • How much money has been wasted on such endeavors
  • How many relationships have suffered as a result of such limited perspective
  • How many opportunities have been passed as a result of limited perspective
  • The fact that one could have easily been through med or law school, if the same amount of energy, time, and commitment to thought, day in and day out had been applied (as for many, this perspective goes on for decades!!!)


IT’S ALL IN THE HEAD……

It truly is. I know women who have resorted to tummy tucks, gastric bypass, drastic diets (Hcg), liposuction, nose jobs, boob jobs, booty implants, and on it goes…. and they still struggle with their body image. Not just one or two, but ALL of the women who have had surgery in regards to weight loss, not only gained the weight back in a year, but actually put on a more. 

The reason they gained the weight back is because they never did the ‘head work - home work’. What good is a tummy tuck if the person has still not learned to eat properly? What good is gastric bypass when the individual never faced the food addiction and corrected it? What good is any of it if the person is still hung up mentally and emotionally 24/7 on a number of what they perceive to be ‘flaws’? Even after surgery, these women still see the same ‘flaw’, when all around them assure them it’s not there!!!!

We must start with the underlying factors that drive one to take such actions first, and get to the bottom of them, then decide if a procedure is still worth having. 

This could mean many things:

  • Stress management
  • Eating disorders
  • Addiction
  • Abuse
  • Low self-esteem
  • Self-hate
  • No self-worth

are but a few of the areas that would need to be addressed.


FEAR: ANOTHER FACTOR 

For many, fear plays a large role in keeping the individual from the change they desire, to actually take place.

  • They fear they will fail (despite the fact they have already struggled for years)
  • They fear they will succeed (yes, you’d be surprised how many people are afraid of what might happen to them and/or their relationships if they actually succeed.)
  • They fear criticism (although they criticize themselves 24/7)
  • They fear rejection (not realizing it is they who reject themselves)

So, one must start with all of the above and get a handle on what they are thinking, feeling, and how they are behaving. It would be wise to sit down with a trusted family member, friend, or professional, who knows you well and can help you understand where perhaps, distorted thinking, is hampering your life by creating a limited perspective.


WHAT HAS WORKED FOR MANY OF THOSE I HAVE COACHED THROUGH THE YEARS:

You have all heard the saying,

“If you do things the same way you always have, you can only expect the same results.”

Indeed. The greatest thing one can do for themselves is to change up things as much as they can, at a pace that works for them. If you usually put your right shoe on first, start with your left. Drive, bike, or walk a different way to work or the store. Train at various times. If you’re indoors a lot, get outdoors. Read topics you don’t usually read, and on it goes. Sit in a different chair. Go to a different restaurant. Do your laundry on a different day.

Routine has it’s pro’s and con’s. One becomes more efficient with their time and activity but the brain goes on ‘auto-pilot’. The brain needs growth, stimulation, and activity. Change it up.

It used to be doctors felt the brain when once injured, would not be the same. Studies have found through the years that there is a neural network, this network is more efficient than the most advanced computer of our time. This neural network allows the network to go around the injured area, and has the ability to learn and behave as the former. This is called Neuroplasticity. Neuroplasticity refers to the potential that the brain has to reorganize by creating new neural pathways to adapt, as it needs. Think of the neurological changes being made in the brain as the brain's way of tuning itself to meet your needs.

When one performs the same activities, thinks the same thoughts, etc., day after day, this pattern becomes engrained into the network, literally. This is why it becomes so difficult to overcome years of habit, or change ones ways. However, it can be done!!!

Once you begin changing things up, keep a list of say five priorities you want to change, and make sure you spend plenty of time, conscious effort, and be engaged in an activity in regards to your five priorities DAILY. That’s right, the more time you spend on what you want, the more your new network builds, and as your new network builds, and builds, and builds, where do you think it’s getting it’s building material from?

Your OLD neural network!!!! Yep, just like tearing down one highway to build a much needed, improved one.  

A beautiful example of this is a wonderful client of mine who has been home rising kids for over two decades. As we have been working through issues and bringing awareness to building this new network, she recently informed me she is seriously considering going to a school to become a massage therapist. I could not have been more delighted!

The decision to go to school and learn the art of a form of hands on healing, is both therapeutic to both the receiver and the giver. The new information that will need to be learned about body systems and so forth, will demand her neural network to begin an expansion, and ultimately, the further the studies and practice go on, the greater, and stronger her new network becomes as the ‘old’ network, patterns, filters, and perspectives begin to fade.


This is how’s it’s done. Yes, I have some other steps one can take, however, they lead one to the professional level. Start here where you can do this yourself. I have witnessed dozens of people throughout the years make sustainable changes that have lead to much happiness to this day, and they did it by doing what I’ve just gone over with you.

If I can be of help to you further on this topic, feel free to contact me.

“I've learned that fear limits you and your vision. It serves as blinders to what may be just a few steps down the road for you. The journey is valuable, but believing in your talents, your abilities, and your self-worth can empower you to walk down an even brighter path. Transforming fear into freedom - how great is that?”       - Soledad O’Brien

And so it is. Pull the funnel from the eyes, and behold the grander view. Look a bit farther and you will be delighted at what you have to offer by believing in yourself, your talents, and your abilities. Transform to freedom. Freedom of thought. Let go of fixations, and become unlimited in your endeavors.

Who would you be if you simply changed and opened your perspective?

Have a wonderful week!

Health!


Jill Nix: NHD, MH, TBM